“I’m so lazy”

This is something I hear regularly, from clients and friends alike. And honestly? I don’t believe lazy is actually a thing. Do I think we sometimes need more rest than other times? Absolutely.Do I think some people do less than others? Of course.Do I think some...

Little suns in the Grass

Little Suns in the Grass There’s a Swedish summer song I’ve carried with me for most of my life. It talks about letting the dandelions grow, even though everyone calls them weeds. About sitting with the memory of little suns in the grass, long after summer...

Not Good Enough!

Not good enough. It’s a horrible feeling, and yet so very common! The Script (remember, that’s that norty negative voice inside our heads) likes to tell many of us that we are some version of not good enough. Not pretty enough Not smart enough Not brave...

The Script and Broadband Consciousness

The Script I talk a lot about the Script, because it’s one of the foundation elements of Broadband Consciousness, which is the method I use the most with my clients. So what IS it, anyway? The Script is what we call the negative voice inside your head. You know...

Growth and change

I make no secret of the fact that I’m a bit neurospicy, and that that sometimes causes my brain to struggle where others might have an easier, or at least a different, time. One of the things I’ve had a hard time with is focussing on my behind the scenes...

A Sensitive Corner of the world

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to really love your life? To wake up excited about your day, no matter what it includes? Life often doesn’t set you up for actually creating a life where you know who you really are, and therefore be able to live life...

Self Care

Self care. Everyone seems to be talking about it, but what is it really, and how do you know what works for YOU?   My own favourite description of self care is Oxford Language’s “the practice of taking an active role in protecting one’s own well-being...

Depression and me

Depression (CW depression, suicidal ideation, self injury)   Those who have known me a while know that I’ve experienced depression on and off for many years. Thankfully, I no longer have that particular burden to carry around, but it is not something...